There are some days where I'm sickened by Facebook. It's become a courtroom of sorts. As long as everything is going good in somebody's life, then it's all roses and cupcakes and sugar-free milkshakes (sugar isn't good for that diet we're on sister!). But the second something happens, i.e. a breakup, it becomes a trial. Everyone falls behind one person, supporting them, while badmouthing the other party involved. The judgement has been passed, and I've been found guilty.
It's hard enough learning to live alone again.
It's hard enough losing your best friend.
It's hard enough watching your future disappear.
It's even worse having to put up with accusations of infidelity, and everyone trying to make me the bad guy. People jump to conclusions so quickly and easily it's impossible to head things off. Naturally, its a break up. We're both going to be upset. We're both hurt and wounded. But why on G-d's green earth does there have to be opposite sides to the whole thing? Sometimes it's not cheating, lack of love, money issues, or anything else. Breakups happen. There doesn't have to be a bad guy to everything.
I still care for her, and I miss her dearly. But the only way we're ever going to get past it is by moving on. It would be nice to do so without having to put up with baseless accusations.
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